And yet there are people who rail (geddit?) against 15-minute cities and efficient public transit that ensures no one ever gets stuck like this

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    I’m confused whats the alternative here? Even in Japan you’d hire a taxi if you have a full load of groceries you’re not taking the train.

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      Japan has accessible grocery stores and department stores just about everywhere. That makes it a lot easier to just get what you need and take it home because of how easy it to get to and from the store. If the load is something you can’t carry by yourself most stores offer a delivery service.

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    I’m assuming this lasy does not have much money at all. You can get road side assistance with your car insurance and they’ll come to you and get you taken care of. If its a dead battery then just use a jumper. Gone are the days of needing a second car for this. Its just a big rechargeable battery with jumper cables attached to it. If you don’t have these then you are either ignorant to their existence, can’t afford it, or just want to live on the edge. If you don’t have the money for it then thats fine. Times can be tough, I get it. If you do have the money for it, then don’t be dumb and pay for these things. Having simple car knowledge helps a lot yet so many in the US don’t know shit about cars

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      If you don’t have the money for it then thats fine. Times can be tough, I get it.

      Is that the entire extent of your consideration, or do you have an actual suggestion for a systemic solution for poor people who find themselves in this situation?

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        Sure, heres my solution: get some heelys and stop being poor. Lmk how it goes for you

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    Columbus is special. It’s a 15 minute city by car outside rush hour. But gods help you if you don’t have a car. The bus comes like every hour.

    I spent years there trying to convince people that it needs light rail

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        That looks more like they had a role in the national rail lines and trams, before proposing a really good light rail system and continuously changing their minds to oppose it. Which is exactly what I’d always heard. “Rail is too expensive and difficult and it doesn’t work, we’ve tried and it keeps getting proposed and shot down”

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    Cars (like any technology under capitalism) are meant to keep people dependent, desperate, and exploitable.

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      meant to keep people dependent

      As compared to what? Public transport is the definition of being dependent! There’s plenty of criticism to be levied, exaggeration isn’t needed.

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        Definitely yes for tractors, you should see John Deere’s business practices and walled garden of maintenance and repairability! Peak capitalism right there.

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    This is naiive and dumb (like a lot of posts in this community).

    If you drove to the grocery store, then you almost certainly have more groceries than are going to be comfortable to carry back by hand.

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      I mean if you can walk to the grocery store in a reasonable amount of time you’ll be able to divide those groceries over multiple visits and not have to deal with this.

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          Not just cargo bikes. I’ve got a folding bike (small apartment) with two panniers and a backpack. Sure it’s not car level but its pretty good for grabbing groceries.

          And it should be noted, Columbus has a pretty bad food desert problem.

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          And if your cargo bike got a flat while you were at the grocery store? It’s nice to have friendly neighbours to help out.

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            …which is much more likely in a walkable community where people actually see each other every day instead of locking themselves away in metal boxes.

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            Ah yes, the inevitable “I have no suggestions, but what if your suggestion doesn’t work???” scenario begins

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              I think they were trying to make an analogous situation for the car with a flat tire on the cargo bike, not saying that cargo bikes aren’t awesome

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                Thanks. Yeah, I think cargo bikes are awesome, but breakdowns can happen to anybody.

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                If you have the sense to get a cargo bike you almost certainly have the good sense to have a patch kit and a pump on hand for exactly that scenario. Also fixing a flat on a bike is orders of magnitude easier than fixing one on a car

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                  Sure, I’m not here to disagree, just trying to make a charitable interpretation of their comment for the purpose of discussion. Maybe a badly bent rim is more analogous, so just pretend that’s the example used if that’s more helpful.

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            It is certainly nice to have friendly neighbors as backup in any scenario, though most frequent cyclists keep a small repair kit on the bike that includes a patch kit. Bike flats happen more frequently than car flats but are almost always field serviceable in 5-10 minutes. It’s not uncommon for daily cyclists to be rolling on tubes with multiple patches.

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          Ah yes; the cargo bikes everyone carries in their car when they have to lug a ton of groceries home

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        I live next door to a grocery store, and a 2m walk from multiple green grocers. I live the walking grocery lifestyle.

        But there are still situations where I have to drive to the store to pick up a large amount of supplies. Like say, when hosting a birthday party, or wanting to pick supplies up at a grocery store that doesn’t have exorbitant prices.

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          With the post indicating that it was a kid’s birthday, I thought the same thing. They may be buying supplies for an entire party. Walking home in summer heat carrying a cake (that should probably be refrigerated) doesn’t sound easy, but add in the kids (are they big enough to help carry things? Or are the kids so little that they need to be carried?) and the rest of the supplies the family bought, and it easily adds up. Then we have roads that aren’t designed for walking, no public transit options, and who knows how far they had to travel to get back home.

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        here in sweden we have also have this unique invention called a “handcart” that lets you transport more things while walking

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          If it takes you 3 hours to walk a return trip to the grocery store, you don’t just live in run-of-the-mill car-centric design, you live in an absolute barren food-desert hellscape. Which is precisely the sort of thing people in this Community advocate against.

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            Define “grocery store”. If I wanted a loaf of bread and a couple of regular vegetables, I’d walk 5min down the road to the convenience store. If I wanted my weekly shop of supplies, it would be the supermarket a 15min drive away, and it would take several trips to do that by hand.

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          Why would you need to carry 5 gallons of water or half a cow of meat? Are you living in the post apocalyptic world? You typically get water from the tap in your house and buy meat from the cow pre butchered.

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            bulk meat is typically cheaper than non bulk meat (around here it’s about 20% cheaper) and a few percent of the population doesn’t have a connection to the water company.

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      There’s a big difference between what’s “comfortable to carry back by hand” and “what’s feasible to carry to a bus stop 100 metres outside the store, and then 400 metres from where the bus drops you off to your home”. That’s if we’re assuming a situation where you did drive to the store, planning to drive home, but an emergency means you can’t drive the return leg.

      But also, if you do have good public transport, it becomes much easier to adjust your schedule to more frequent, smaller shops, where it’s not just feasible but easy to carry the groceries. Or in a good city for cycling, to drop the groceries in your paniers, basket, or even full-on cargo bike.

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      Pffft. Amateur. Everyone knows if you can’t carry every bag you bought in one trip you are a failure.

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      Nobody in NYC can buy groceries because they don’t have cars. Cars are the only way to get groceries home.

      • 𝕱𝖎𝖗𝖊𝖜𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍@lemmy.world
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        We use rolly carts in NYC and make more frequent trips. It’s also not uncommon to stop by Trader Joe’s or the supermarket on your way home. The best carts are those with the weird tri-wheels that go up and down stairs.

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          Love the rolly carts. Lil old ladies pushing them home all over the outer boroughs. They’re actually what I was thinking about when I made the above sarcastic reply. I think most supermarkets sell them for like $10 or something.

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      Fair enough. Of course with public transit you could send some of you home with some of the goods while one person waits for the tow truck.

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      Sure. It’s definitely that, and not that most North American cities are designed expressly to force you to drive even if you want a single cup of coffee or a sandwich or something.

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        Oh this case for sure 100% without a doubt has to prove out the point you’ve been obsessing over.

        No possible way it could be a situation that contradicts your pre-conceived notion, adds nuance, or just isn’t really relevant to it. I mean what are the odds of that ever happening? /S

        As I’ve said, I live in a walkable city near grocery stores, that still doesn’t eliminate the need to occasionally drive to one.

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            No, it doesn’t. It eliminates the need to for you, in your specific cases.

            Weird how people on this sub seem incapable of imagining lives other than their own.

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      I did, it was a lovely little story about how the kid thought OP was a lot younger than she actually is, I think

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    i mean your insurance is supposed to cover the fees of tracting the car to the first garage, and pay you a taxi or whatever

    isn’t that a thing in Murica

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      We call that roadside assistance and many people do not have it as it is not required. Manny more people don’t know they have it. Actually some phone companies include it in their plans, I’ve also seen it as a feature on some credit cards. But if you don’t think about it, you forget you have it.

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      American car insurance covers collision damage from other cars or external factors. It doesn’t cover mechanical failures. You can get extended warranty coverage, both from your car dealer or from third parties, but this is usually not financially worthwhile.

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    You can call literally call anyone you know we all have cars here. If you don’t know anyone at all you can taxi or Uber. In smaller towns you may even be able to call the police non emergency number and get help from a community officer type employee who has a car and does minor non police related stuff. Many many many things would have to fail before you need to ask a stranger and even in that case you would be hard pressed to not find help within the first couple people you ask.

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      My point is that this entire situation is a massive systemic failure. You shouldn’t have to find yourself in a situation where your car breaking down means you’re stuck at the grocery store with no way to get home unless someone deigns to come and get you – hell, you shouldn’t even need to drive to get groceries, any well-designed city would have multiple grocery stores within a few blocks regardless of where you live, and a dense public transit network and/or cycling infrastructure so you can get to the ones that are farther away.

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        Living in London all my life, we grew up in a car-less household and my dad would do nearly all of the food shopping for our family of 6 himself (7 for a while when my uncle lived with us while he was studying), carrying it all home on the bus. I am still car-free and can get my shopping home using the bus or my bike on the way home from work. If you can’t do that in your city, then that’s the fault of your city’s planners. It’s a failure of providing good public transport.

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        Believe it or not, some people don’t care to live in cities, and prefer the outskirts. Explain, how should a train station or a bike lane get me to the grocery store when I live on a farm?

        I’ve been in the situation where my car broke down and I had no way to get home without someone deigning to get me. That’s literally how life is when you’re living out of town. One of my least favorite part about this comm and the sub before it is the sheer ignorance and unwillingness to acknowledge that a non-urban perspective exists, it comes across as arrogant, ignorant, and condescending.

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          This situation happened at a high-density gathering point (a grocery store) in a major city (Columbus, Ohio.) The people in the story didn’t break down by the side of some lonely highway passing through the desert with no signs of civilization for a hundred kilometers either way. I am therefore speaking of systemic failures in major cities that render people in major cities stuck like this.

          That said, I’ve been to (and briefly lived in) multiple tiny rural farming villages in the middle of nowhere in India that still had a bus stop and/or a train station within walking distance. When that isn’t the case there are minivans or even livestock carts that get people to where they need to be going (those count as public transport too.) Public transit is literally how people (and their groceries) get around in the heartland. Y’all bring up this point of how not everyone lives in cities every single time – we know. Americans aren’t the only ones who live on farms or out of the way. We do, too, and we get by just fine without cars.

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    Uber exists. They could have easily spun up the app and called for a ride.

    Buses also hit grocery stores or surrounding areas, often even in towns with limited public transit.

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      Uber exists. They could have easily spun up the app and called for a ride.

      Clearly a single mom with two kids who can’t afford the upkeep on her car doesn’t have the money to spend on an Uber ride, or she would’ve done that already.

      The bus network in and around Columbus, Ohio (which is most likely where this happened, based on OOP’s location) also doesn’t seem to be all that great – for all you know the nearest bus stop to the grocery store or to their house may well be kilometers away

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        Y’all wilding out. Uber, lyft, AAA - those are paid services. If your car is randomly breaking down in a parking lot, you probably don’t have a lot of money, people with money don’t drive unreliable cars. I mean sure, maybe they left the dome light on for hours, but I doubt it.

        Yes its insane you can’t find affordable housing close to stores. Yes needing a car sucks.

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          I mean, parts fail. I had a new battery shit out on me after a couple of months, despite keeping up with regular maintenance. Everyone in this thread is running with completely unverified ideas about why the event happened the way it did, with no supporting evidence and then lashing out at others for disagreeing. Y’all all trying to verify your biases.

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    In my country, most people who own a car are also members of a drivers’ club where you pay a membership fee in exchange for being able to call them for assistance in situations like this (they might repair or tow your car). Is that not a thing in the US?

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      That sounds similar to AAA, pronounced “Triple A.” In the US, it’s an optional “club” that provides emergency road service to members. I’ve had to rely on it before, and recommend it for those who drive a used car (which can have unforeseen issues in the works.)

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      American drivers are required by law to purchase car insurance, and “roadside assistance” as it’s called is usually a mid or premium feature of said insurance

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    I hate the impacts of cars too, and desperately want better transit options.

    But we should maybe put up a sign for stories out of North America:

    “North America is really really big. It sucks that it doesn’t have better mass transit coverage, but that’s still a genuinely hard problem to solve in rural North America.”

    Most folks in rural North America have stories both of being the rescued and being the rescuer when cars have broken down.

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      Columbus, OH. 900k pop. 2.23m metro. Doesn’t have a functional transit system.