i didn’t mention him because i only really mention people i need advice on, but i have been dating one of my alters in-system for a while (both guys). :) i have osdd

    • jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPEnglish
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      3 days ago

      osdd is a disorder called “Other Specified Dissociative Disorder”, this disorder forms alters, basically different parts of the brain that form independently and become different parts called alters, i believe. all the alters working together collectively are called a system, and within that group (or system) would be in-system

      • oce 🐆@jlai.lu
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        2 days ago

        So you are dating another part of your brain/mind. How do you make sure this is what your alter actually wants and it’s not the “main” (if there’s such a thing) alter, you, who forced or imagined it?