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Cake day: February 6th, 2025

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  • Thanks for taking the time to reply with all that.

    There is a lot of avoidance going on despite them vocally asserting that they want to get better and are willing to try new ideas. But when the rubber meets the road, there is nothing but excuses.

    I’ve tried asking deeper questions that require introspection, just to hear “I don’t know how to answer that.”

    It feels like a lost cause, but a big part of what got me out of my own pit is that I don’t easily let things go. (Not bragging, it gets me in trouble a lot, too)

    I’ll definitely keep your advice in mind and let you know if it helps!










  • When I first started to transition, I felt like I was 100% female, but after a while I just realized I’m not not a guy, but I am definitely a woman, lol.

    It’s hard to describe without relying on stereotypes, but I feel just as comfortable in a group of ladies as I do with guys. (Generally speaking. Gender toxicity is very confusing and off putting, and I have a hard time getting along with those types)

    Can I ask how long you’ve been transitioning? It took me about 8 years of social transition and 6 years of medical to figure it out.

    FWIW, I think all the years of male conditioning have definitely affected how I feel my gender.

    edit: fixed timeline. It dawned on me about 2 years ago