+1 for Jitsi. Works well, user-friendly, lots of features without looking complicated, not too resource-hungry, lots of ways to extend it. All the other person needs it to click a link, enter a name and allow microphone/camera usage one time. There’s also an app for Android and iOS, though you can just as well use a mobile browser.
I was with a dude once whose foreskin was super tight and couldn’t even be pulled down when flaccid.
That’s called phimosis and is an actual medical condition where it makes sense to remove part of the foreskin.
Other than that, without informed consent (which a baby/child obviously can’t give) it’s genital mutilation, plain and simple, and should be punished as such. It’s a remainder of barbaric times where the concept of enjoyable sex was considered evil and masturbation in particular was to be prevented at any cost. The excuses about health, hygiene etc. are just convenient lies.
Personally I’ve heard (anecdotal evidence) from men who had a circumcision as adults (either by choice or for medical reasons) and some say the sex afterwards was better, some say it was worse. The point is, either way it should be an informed decision by the person whose penis is affected, and not by anybody else.
So long, Elon…