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Cake day: June 22nd, 2023

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  • I took a Wilderness First Aid refresher earlier this year. It was interesting how much the curriculum has stayed the same but the emphasis has changed since I took it a few years ago. There’s still the checklist to get to “should I call for evacuation or not” but where before it felt like encouraging people to call for evacuation when needed, this one felt more like “stop to think and be sure a call is really needed because too many people are tying up S&R with their InReach Mini calls for a twisted ankle”.

    Also new is the full-throated support of adding Narcan to your kit, assuming a state with decent Good Samaritan laws.

    AI trail guidance sound like exacerbating an already untenable situation.




  • They are information sponges. They won’t understand everything, but they will catch on to at least some things. Don’t treat them like idiots. Don’t be unfair. Don’t be arbitrary.

    Because it’s fresh in mind from a personal conversation, e.g., if a parents treats one child better than the other, the other absolutely sees it and she will remember. Reactions may vary, but she sees it and will make future choices with that information in mind.






  • Sure, it’s “ok” in that I don’t think you should go to jail for it.

    But you need to be “ok” with the consequences. Like how many people would be turned off by your language and would not want to associate with you. Who would judge you as a high-drama person to avoid (this is where I am personally, given your description of using a slur to try to bait someone into trouble). And people like school administrators who would remove you for breaking their specific rules on speech (or mods on a forum). And the employer who would fire you for using what is generally seen as unprofessional language.



  • Be very skeptical of any “rules” of first dates. This one is definitely bunk.

    Lots of people don’t drink.

    Lots of people don’t like bars.

    Lots of people think dinner/drinks where there is nothing to do but chat is an awful first date. (Hello, this one is me 100%).

    Lots of people are conscientious of drinking on a first date with a person they don’t know as a safety measure. (Hello, me again).

    Throw in religious/cultural/medical needs on drinking and this “rule” falls apart even faster.



  • Curious if anyone on here has had zero negative interactions. I don’t know if that’s possible.

    If any negative interactions stresses you out, OP, a forum-style community like this might not be for you. Or maybe you would be happier on an instance that disables downvotes; there are a few of them out there.